Facing Death-Caring for Others

 

Facing Death

Facing heavenly mansions. Caring for others

“ In my Father’s house are many mansions, I hope yours is next to mine!” (author unknown) Jude 23

Facing Death

I sit in the sunshine on an unusually hot May afternoon, trying to thaw from the frigid temperatures of the hospital ICU and regain my composure. I find myself asking the question “What is this for Lord?”

My bff of more than fifty years (high school) lies upstairs in a hospital bed struggling to come back to life. Three days ago she was “circling the drain,” as we nurses sometimes quip to each other after caring for someone who is on the brink of dying. Her first words to me are, “I don’t want to die……” They are barely audible. Her next words to her husband are, “I can’t leave you.” Tears trickle down her cheeks, her lip quivers, and her shoulders shake.

Caring for the Living

Her reason for living is to care for others.

I sit here emotionally spent. My life of late has been one challenge after another. My question is finding its answer. I too need a reason to keep living: Someone or something to care for—a purpose.

Caring like Jesus

Jesus’ life purpose was to give life to others.

This is what makes us most like Christ. The giving of ourselves in service to others. “To rescue the perishing, care for the dying,” as written by Fannie Crosby so long ago.

My role as a nurse is superseded by my role as friend. Nursing duties are done automatically: Honed by years of nursing. Friendship is a whole other dimension requiring total investment of oneself. I want to be more like Jesus my Savior every day. This is the lesson He gives me today. I am unable to rescue the perishing, but He will and I can introduce Him to the dying. Thankfully, mercifully I know this precious friend of mine needs no introduction. She knows Him well! So I will be thankful for His healing (rescue), hold her hand, and make sure her family’s needs are met. His peace I will share, as I find it sufficient, especially on days like today! Time to head back into the icebox and keep my promise.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nyWS5l3kb8

Forever Friends By Sandi Patty

Father,

Thank you for rescuing the perishing and caring for the dying and those who love them! Only You can love them more and I am forever grateful!

You are a good, good Father!

Further reading:

God Place You

https://www.treadingwatertiljesuscomes.com/2019/01/15/god-place-you/

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About Yvonne Jones

I am at heart, a LIFEguard: "big" sister, mama, grandmother, aunt, friend, swimming coach, lifeguard trainer, and registered nurse. I am in the business of alleviating fear through education and lots of hand holding. As a swimming instructor, I have taught people of all ages to overcome fear of the water and I marvel as fear gives way to fearlessness, as panic turns to pure joy, as tears dissolve into giggles of glee, and pennies retrieved from the bottom of the abyss become trophies. As a nurse, I have been privileged to walk up to Heaven's gate as patients and family are welcomed home, witnessed the miracle of birth, helped mend broken hearts, and cared for the elderly as they wait. Scriptures number one admonition is "fear not." Question is HOW??? The Word becomes our swimming instructor and can help us learn to "tread water til Jesus comes." Something my students often thought I was going to make them do! So welcome to my pool! Jump in the cool water. Let it refresh your soul and feel the unseen hands of the Master Lifeguard lift you up and out of the deep water. Who knows, you just might even walk on water!

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